Between my shadow and my soul

Bleeding cauterization

Life's funny. Things and people change you, when they really don't deserve to. They're not worthy of affecting your life. But they do. It's no one's fault, really. Just a combination of misguided intentions, monologous communication, insensitivity, and coincidental circumstances. That's all. They didn't really MEAN to do it. I have to believe that. It's like when you're cruising and a pothole messes up your alignment. You can't blame your tyres, or your penchant for Reeha, or your sunglases, or the sun, or the trucks, or the tar. It's all of it and consequentially none of it. Yet your alignment is messed up, and in this case your skin is raw and burning. And it will be for a while. Just accept. Stay away from them if you can't be Civil. Make du'a for them. Carry on. I will.

4 shared ideas:

Azra February 5, 2009 at 11:53 AM  

Chocolate and patience. Thats my answer to everything.

If you need to know what to do :)

M Junaid February 5, 2009 at 2:01 PM  

Kya baat hai mera noorjehaan? :)

UJ February 5, 2009 at 3:37 PM  

Hey Nooj,

So are we back to making up words.. monologous leaves me cold, and somewhat puzzled?!

Otherwise, hope things are okay.. give me a shout if you need to chat k?

Despite what i thought, for the moment this consulting this is really relaxed :D

Nooj February 6, 2009 at 9:41 AM  

thanks bleeps (blog-peeps) :) this isnt a sad or angry post. its actually a hopeful one. like stepehn covey's 90/10 rule. or what shantaram says in the opening sentence of his book. use your ten% manoueverage to the best of your ability, because you still have the power to hate or forgive, resent or be free...

oi uj i'm still taking u up on the wii offer and counselling coffee tho ;P